It's grandma birthday! Today it's the actual day, but we celebrated it over the weekend.
Family will always come behind friends or own entertainment. It's so hard to have a simple family gathering, you will only see those usual few going back to visit. If not for such occasion, you will never see the whole family get together. It's always the usual excuses, "not free" "busy" "see how lah" "maybe going", busy with school work or i-don't-know but actual fact is out with friends.
Anyway, back to celebration day. I wasn't in prefect mood that day, I know it suppose to be a happy day but I just couldn't smile.
With my dearest friend, Brenden, giving black face due to being uncomfortable facing my relatives. I know his reluctance of joining us and there's other reasons behind his spoilt mood too. But I just want him to know that, I'm thankful he came, apologies for my stubbornness (cause I keep on asking him to go) and my relatives words. I felt that he's my close friend, just like a family member to me, I would love him to join my family celebrations. But I didn't expect it to turn out sour.
I wasn't please when my aunt commented on my tattoo, where or how I wanted the tattoo to be is my decision. I will bear the consequences of the aftermath. Then again, mouth belongs to others, there's no way I could prevent them from speaking.
AND I didn't like it when aunt uses the word "carelafare" on my close friend. It's definitely very rude and unpleasant. Moreover, it's grandma's birthday, more the merrier and grandma saw him before, mom & dad know him. So I don't see the problem of having him joining the celebration.
It was a bad night for me, though I'm suppose to be happy but I just couldn't smile happily.












